- Mar 12, 2025
How I Tamed My Savage Inner Critic
You think you're invincible until you're not.
At 28, half my face went numb. The diagnosis after months of specialists: "just stress."
My subconscious patterns had created the perfect storm:
A merciless inner critic driving perfectionism
Emotions shut down to "stay sane"
A doom merchant in my head always preparing for worst-case scenarios
I tried changing everything external:
Left my stressful corporate job. Nope.
Moved to sunny southern France. Still no.
Only when I did the inner work did my world change. And almost overnight. Inside and out. After decades of high-functioning anxiety, I finally felt like myself and could truly live.
Your strengths become your weakness if the patterns that drive success also drive stress.
But they aren't life sentences either - if you do the inner work.
Here's a glimpse into the Inner Critic Coaching Café last week where I shared my own Inner Critic transformation story - it's why I LOVE working with inner critics, because they are such game-changers!